Here’s the thing, you shouldn’t have to settle for less. I know I know, easier said than done. Buuuut is it?

     When you work really hard on yourself and you finally feel like you know who are or who you are becoming. Why should you change for anyone else or for that matter anything else in your life that you come across.

     It’s a hard and lonely road to stick your ethics because let’s face it, not everyone is going to get you. So you struggle to stay in your lane. Because everything and everyone is going to steer you to conform. It’s not the little things that are at stake, oh no, it’s the big ones.

     So why am I writing this today. Because I achieved that goal of sticking to who I am. And yes it’s a hard place to be, especially since I’m starting to realize that I’ve come to feel like I’m at that part of my life where there’s going to be only a handful of people that will get me. 

     So what’s the point of that you ask, well it’s better to have a few people get you than a whole lot of people who don’t and you’re left standing there in the middle of a party with a drink in hand alone. 

     Back to the original thought of today. This also includes who you choose to be your partner. The perfect ride of die, the one that’s going like who you are and doesn’t want to change that, but to be apart of it, all of it.

     You want him to give you that type of love  right? You know what type of love I mean, right? I don’t think that you do.

      Well it’s that hold you tight, can’t sleep at night, lose your appetite kind of love, love. So I’m going to stick to that. Be me no matter what comes and fight, hand to hand if I have to.

     You should too.

      Until then……..

        HRH